Legally Speaking, What is Marriage -
Deciding
to marry is an important step in your life, and one that should be well thought
out. Marriage is a legal state. The Family Court, which exists to preserve and
protect the institution of marriage, says that marriage is 'the union of a man
and a woman to the exclusion of all others voluntarily entered into for life’.
If any of the aspects of this statement don't seem to relate to what you are
expecting or experiencing, talk about them with your partner and ensure that
marriage is the right step for you both. Communication is vital - talking about
exactly what each of you expects from the marriage, and being honest in
evaluating whether you can live up to these expectations can save lots of pain
and heartache in the future.
The Letter of the Law - Like
most of the important things in life, getting married and marriage itself have
legal consequences and laws that apply to them.
Getting Married - The legal requirements of
'getting married' are quite straightforward and once you have decided how you'd
like to be married, your church leader or celebrant will advise you of your
responsibilities, and help ensure you meet them. However, as they say
'forewarned is fore planned.' In all areas of your life, it pays to know where
you stand legally so we'll take a quick look at how the law sees your intention
to wed.
Are you old enough - If one partner
wishing to marry is under 18 years of age, the legal road ahead is going to be a
little rockier than if you were both 18 years or older. If one partner is
younger than 18, you must have parental consent and a magistrate's or judge's
order before you can be married. The same applies if both partners are younger
than 18, but it appears to be more difficult to receive the magistrate's or
judge's order if both partners are not legally of age.
What do I need to do - You must lodge a Notice of
Intended Marriage at least one month and one day, and not earlier than eighteen
months, prior to the wedding date. This time is supposed to prevent 'spur of the
moment' marriages, giving partners time to reconsider their decision. In
exceptional cases, this waiting time can be waived for a fee.
Your celebrant can provide you with the Notice, and you should lodge it
with them once you have completed the details. Once you have completed your
Notice of Intended Marriage, you have started the legal marriage process.
When you lodge the Notice, you will need to supply the following:
1. Birth certificates, extracts of birth certificates, passports or Australian
naturalisation certificates for identification.
2. A decree absolute or death certificate as proof that any previous marriage
has been terminated.
Get to know your celebrant. You must include on the Notice the name of the
person who will conduct your ceremony, and unless extenuating circumstances
arise, you are obliged to be married by the person named.
The celebrant named is obliged to either be at your wedding or provide a
replacement of your choice if necessary. This helps ensure your marriage will go
ahead even if the celebrant is unable to attend.
Your celebrant will play an important role on your wedding day and throughout
the planning of your wedding. You will come to know them very well, so it is
important to choose someone you both like, trust, and with whom you feel
comfortable.
This person is responsible for ensuring you fulfil all legal requirements,
and for lodging your paperwork in order to receive the final 'Marriage
Certificate'.
Statutory Declarations - This document is supplied
by your Celebrant. You are required to complete a Declaration just prior to your
wedding day. After your marriage has been solemnized, this document, along with
the other legal documentation is sent by your Celebrant, to the Registrar of
Births, Deaths and Marriages, on your behalf.
Witnesses - You must have two people willing to
witness your signatures on your Marriage Certificates, the legal documentation
& Marriage Register on your wedding day. This is usually your Chief
Bridesmaid & Best Man, but in fact it can be anyone, as long as they are
both at least 18 years of age or older & are able to understand what they
are signing and hear your vows being spoken.
Marriage - You will find that being a legally
married couple has more legalities than being single, and more than actually
'getting married'.
Changing your Name - Once married, the female in
the partnership traditionally changes her surname to her husband's.
This custom is popular, but is not a legal requirement of marriage. Many
women today choose to keep their own name, and some women hyphenate their
surname with their husband's.
Occasionally a groom may adopt the bride's surname.
This is entirely a personal choice, but one that you and your partner should
discuss and agree on. Choosing to keep your own name or hyphenate your two names
will later lead to a decision regarding your children's surname - so this is an
important family decision, as well as a vital legal decision.
Taxation after Marriage - Taxation can change after
you are married. As taxation is an involved issue, with many facets that mean
everyone's situation can be different, it is best to contact the Australian
Taxation Office, a tax agent, or your accountant to evaluate how your tax
arrangements will be affected by your marriage
Making a Will - Right now, making a will is
probably the last thing on your mind, but it is an important part of marriage.
If you are married, and die without a will, your spouse will inherit all or
part of your property. Additionally, any will made previous to your marriage
will usually no longer apply.
In the case where couple who have not made wills, may die at the same time
e.g an accident, Tsunami, plane crash etc and it is not clear who of the two
died first, the law will assume that the elder of the two died first and the
estate would be dispersed as per the younger, this could cause great hardship if
either of the parties had dependants form previous marriages.
If you are concerned about what will happen to your property if you die,
seek advice on making or changing your will. Your solicitor will be able to
help.
Health & Welfare Benefits - Marriage also
affects health and welfare benefits. If you receive these benefits, you must
advise various agencies if you marry - you will usually be penalised if you fail
to promptly do so. These agencies include Health Insurance Funds, Centrelink,
and other Government Departments.
Contact them before your wedding to determine your responsibilities and to
evaluate how your benefits will change.
Family Ties - The
family is an important group in Australian law. Australian laws expect a married
person to financially support any children from the marriage; look after the
health and welfare of those children; send them to school between the ages that
apply in your State; and financially support their spouse as best they can if he
or she cannot do so.
Joint Ownership - This
is an issue all married couples must consider- even if it is to simply dismiss
the idea. 'Ownership' is an issue usually raised when the union is parting - due
to separation, divorce, or death.
Each investment you make as a couple will require a decision as to whether
you will jointly own the item, or whether only one of you will own it. There are
two main ways you can both own an investment.
Property owned 'jointly' by both of you automatically goes to the surviving
spouse when the other dies. Property owned as 'tenants in common' does not
automatically go to the surviving spouse when the other dies. You can put it in
your will for someone else.
You should consult your solicitor for more information and advice on ownership -
this can help ensure parting is easier, whatever the circumstances.
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